I dreamed that my boyfriend who I just broke up with came back.

 ① For breakup therapy ② For "Can we still be friends after breaking up" ③ Love to the end but want (both parties) to break up happily ④ About how to forget that girl (boy) ① First make sure whether there is really no hope between you. If you still have hope, you must work hard to fight for it. If there is no hope, there is no need to persist. It is better to suffer a short pain than a long pain. If you continue to persist, it will hurt both parties. But the period after a breakup is really painful. When you are thinking about the other person, your brain sometimes wants to contact the other person uncontrollably. During this time, you must restrain yourself [1] and never deny yourself. If he (she) doesn't love you anymore, you actually have not lost anything. Because what you lose is someone who should not be loved and who does not love you, while what the other person loses is someone who loves him (her). Please don’t be sad if he (she) doesn’t love you anymore. It’s not because you are not excellent, but because he (she) doesn’t know how to cherish your excellence. Usually after a period of settling down, the wounds of a breakup will gradually heal.    There was once a female student who cried and complained that her boyfriend wanted to break up with her because he thought she was not pretty enough. Her friends told the female student: In fact, you looked like this when he was pursuing you. You didn’t change, he changed. This was just his excuse, so you don’t need to blame yourself. The female classmate asked: Can I win him back if I become prettier? A friend said: In fact, in this world, most people are average beauties. The most important thing is not the beauty of appearance, but the kindness of the heart. Everyone has their own characteristics and there is no need to change themselves according to the eyes of others! [2] Don’t slander the other person. Whether you are the one who breaks up or the one who is broken up with, always remember not to speak ill of the other person! This is an extremely important persistence, not to mention who owes whom emotionally, saying bad things about the other person is the most inappropriate behavior. It will cause others to give you negative comments and make your previous relationship seem quite worthless. Think about it, when you criticize your boyfriend (girlfriend) for being selfish, stingy, lazy and other shortcomings, others will ask: Why did you choose him (her) in the first place? Because, when you speak ill of others, you are also corrupting yourself! >>>Betray him if you no longer love him (her)? (She) You should thank him (her) because she (he) allows you to learn how to love in the future, and allows you to know how to love him (her) when you meet the right person! Let you be like a butterfly emerging from its cocoon, experience spiritual cleansing again and again, and eventually grow! ② Yes, if you must be friends then you can do it, but it will make both of you feel uncomfortable. It is better to part ways amicably. The memories hidden in your heart will be more romantic than the daily embarrassment. . . . . . 1: Never be friends - After breaking up, you cannot be friends. Usually, those who are friends are those who have not given up and are still connected, and have fantasies about the other party. I hope that if we can't be lovers, we can be friends and stay by his side. I hope that one day I can move him with my true feelings and then get back together. Even if we get back together, what can we do? Can you guarantee that the same thing won't happen again one day? During this period, you have to face the sweetness and love between your beloved and others. The suffering you have to endure is unimaginable. Now that you have broken up, just abandon everything and move forward with ease. Even if they are fake friends, why bother? What's the point of having such friends? - Two: Don't meet - After breaking up, why meet? Meeting will only hurt each other's hearts, because they have loved and hurt each other before. Meeting will only remind each other of the unhappiness. After breaking up, there is no benefit in meeting. Friends are not friends, and lovers are not lovers. In what capacity do they meet? Nothing but embarrassment. If you break up, leave gracefully and don't meet again under any excuse because you have to start your new life. -Three: Don’t look for similarities - Don’t look for similarities when you fall in love again, because you will always find the other person’s shadow in him/her, and think that the other person is the same person you used to be. This will easily lead you into comparisons and require the other person to become the same as before. This is very bad for your feelings, and often you end up dwelling on the past. My own love life is just making up for the gaps and regrets of the past. -If you want to love, you must be able to love. Don’t dwell on the past. Those are just past events, memories. Don’t do stupid things because of the past. Breaking up is no big deal, remember to cherish the present. If you want to let go, you must be able to let go. Since you have chosen to give up, you must face the future life bravely. Without her, you don't necessarily lose the goal of life. So being able to take it and let it go is the way to deal with a breakup.

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